Allow me to reintroduce myself...

I have no idea whats about to happen with this blog. Well, I know where i'm going to start, I have no idea where its gonna end... follow along as I figure it out

This is a virtual diary. I'm no expert on anything. This is about my journey into the best version of me. (oooh! that sounded kinda poet-y!!) Feel free to share tips and suggestions but PLEASE keep your judgments to yourself. Thanks for your support! :o)

Friday, November 23, 2012

Must Love Aliens

Imma freestyle this entry a lil bit. So I was having a conversation with my peers on the twitters last night and I cant seem to get it out of my head. Its not the first time this convo has happened. The gist of the conversation was that many basic "abnormalities" are considered deal breakers for many men.  Lemme say this the most basic way I know how:  You mofos are TRIPPING. I think this is a perfect example of how the media (and porn) has inundated us with so many unrealistic images of what perfection looks like that we don't accept/want/desire humans anymore. We want models. We want perfection. We want airbrushed hourglass beauty with long tresses good credit, no offspring, and only visits the dr. for checkups.  oh...and she has bisexual tendencies as well.


Women are dying because they are not accepted as they are.  You have labeled the blessings that were passed on through their DNA as deficient. People are going through great lengths to increase their likelihood of being accepted and uh "chose".  They are risking their lives and many are losing. Think I'm lyin?


There's a part of me saying that I'm not out here trynna be chose by someone as small minded and ignorant as that. However, there is another part of me that knows that these are my peers and I want to be accepted. We all do. Nobody likes rejection. There is also another part of me that very easily turned off as well.  But Imma say this though, I'm not about to allow allow a man with 9 perfect (for me) qualities go because he has 1 "abnormality".  If so, I deserve to be alone.

One must also take into consideration that individuals that are seeking this type of physical perfection are probably only seeking some type of physical or superficial interaction. If they are seeking something more serious, I only know one person in real life that is winning that hard at life enough to deserve a trophy wife and he's already found her.  The awesome thing about her is that she is as beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside.  I know my city.  Many of these attractive women don't have too much to offer outside of their looks. Accidents happen. She might be raising your child one day.

At least she looked good tho!! ( -_-)

I am a human. ...a very awesome one. But I am human in every sense of the word. It is a scary thought that this fact may disqualify me from someone's dating pool.

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