So someone asked me recently, “what makes you so awesome? All girls say they are, but what makes you so different?”  My ego was the first thing to react. I gave him the *WTF(renchToast) Screwface* as if to say “how dare you inquire of such obviousness?! Haven’t you been paying attention?!”  So, to humor this foolish mortal human, I came up with some list that ended up being more cliché and less than adequate in terms of expressing all things “pro column”.  I decided to revisit the subject when I didn’t feel so pressured to “put out” (take that how you want to).  Now seems good.

PRO: I know a little bit about A LOT of things AND I never pretend to know it all. This makes me a great conversationalist.  I’m genuinely interested in most things and am willing to discuss anything we may disagree on.

Con: I will remember what we talked about, Research it, Then bring it up again later. Not because I’m trying to be a douche and tell you “you were wrong” or have another debate, but I want to share some information you at one point showed me you were interested in. This MIIIIGHT get annoying if you are wrong a lot. :oP

PRO: I’m very down to earth/low-maintenance/ non- materialistic.  Truthfully I could’ve made each of them their own point. But they all equate to the main point of being down to earth.  I don’t mind getting dirty. I love to have fun and try new things.  Lets discover some shit, ya know!!

con: I bore easily. Entertain me.

PRO: I’m versatile.  Formal Balls or a Basketball games, I’m there! Don’t expect me to be uncomfortable. I make friends pretty easily. I like people.

con: I’m actually pretty shy.

PRO: I’m very selfless. I’m very aware of my place in the universe as a contributor to the lives of others.  I want to help everybody and am constantly thinking of ways to do so.

con: I forget about me.  This can get stressful at times.

PRO: I’m a survivor. *cue destiny’s child*  I have so many stories of strife and achievement.  I don’t defeat easy. This applies to everything. I’m a very resourceful and creative individual.  If there is something I want, I’ll find a way to get or create it.

con: I don’t like tomatoes. (I couldn’t think of anything relative. Sorry)

PRO: I’ll try (almost) anything once.

con: ALMOST, dammit!!

PRO: I present well.  I take pride in my appearance and dress appropriately while remaining fashion forward.  Let’s be honest, no one wants a scrub…unless they are one themselves.

con: I’m not letting you walk out of the house with a wrinkled shirt. No seriously.

PRO: Open-minded and Free Thinker.  I think for myself while being open to learning new concepts from others.  I refuse to accept everything as it has presented for the majority of my life.  I’ve taken the red pill and stepped outside of the matrix.  Come with?

con: If you think there a con to this, Gownon back to the matrix.  I’ll be here when you are ready for this here red pill.  -à((()))

PRO:  I have a very strong belief that people who brag about their sex skills are absolutely horrible in bed. So, …….……………………………………………………………………………………………………

Con:  ………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………………

PRO: *smirk*

con:  No ya never gonna get it.

PRO: I’m not predisposed to obesity. The benefits of this are endless.

Con: If you like em thick, you’ll have to be patient. 

PRO: I like to read.

con:  I like to read everything.

Why the hell did I take the time to write this out??  Cause its important to know and ACCEPT yourself.  This is applicable to all facets of life.  As an individual is dating it's important to understand what you want as well as what you need. Me knowing that i'm open-minded and tolerant allows me to hold up a stop sign when someone expresses that they conservative and rigid. Knowing that I can be pretty selfless forces me to understand that a selfish person isn't going to work for me.  I encourage everyone to take a similar inventory of yourself.  Know what makes you awesome.  When you know that you are, you wont accept anything less.